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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 08:12

How does one succeed in life?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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What I need from you?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Making more friends is a goal.

Doesn't Musk hire Security for his Tesla dealerships?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Does not procrastinate.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why do people turn a blind eye to bad behaviour if someone is very good looking? Whereas if someone is ugly, they get harshly judged for everything?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Ask yourself:

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.